Monday 16 July 2012

THE ART OF LETTING GO

"We both know, it's better if we just let it go.." ~Just let it go by:4Tune

People have different ideas about letting go. For some, it would be for the good, but for others, letting go is something painful and may scar you forever. Letting go for me is an opportunity to explore other options. Though at the process of letting go, I know it would hurt so much. First, I would have to ask myself, 'is it still worth it? Is it still worth the fight?' If it is, then I'd continue holding on  to fight for it. What's worth having is worth fighting  for. Consequences are always a part of letting go. Letting go is like giving something up or setting it free, for you and it/he/she to be happy. Sometimes it is better to let go for you to learn or realize how you've really been with that something or someone. You'll sooner learn how to live without it, be happy without it. But that's for the positive side of letting go. Now for the negative side, letting go might mean that you'd have to set each other free because you know that you're no good for each other. You will only harm each other. The sad part here is, you'd have to face the fact that that something or someone is better off WITHOUT YOU. This is the time when you get scarred. But anyhow, you'd still learn how to move on.  Moving on is the best part. Here, you'd realize that there are other possibilities, you shouldn't drown yourself with your sadness, you could always start anew.

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